This is me pretending it is a desk chair. At night it goes flat, hips on the fat end, and he goes deeper than he has in two years while I just lie there. I come most nights now. Thirty-one, two kids under four. It looks navy because of the lamp, it is the charcoal one.
27° couples pillow
the amoret pillow
- Looks like a cushion. Leave it on the bed.
Size: 22.8″ × 15″ × 9.1″ / 3.7 lb
Our first letter has ten percent off your first order — $8.49 on this pillow.
- 90 nights, no questions
- Plain brown box
- Replaced if it sags
- Free US shipping
- A person answers
What’s included
- The Amoret Pillow, Deep Lift Pro — dense slow-give core, gripped base, 22.8″ × 15″ × 9.1″.
- A heathered mélange knit cover (100% polyester) — full-length zip, off in about ten seconds, machine washable cold.
- The Sunday Rule — our 41-page guide, a $29 book we do not charge you for, emailed within minutes of your order.
How to use
- Slide it under her. Wide end under her hips, so her pelvis tilts up to 27°.
- Move the headrest to where she wants it. Her neck, her lower back, or under his knees.
- Pick a position. The foam holds the angle however hard it gets. No stacking, no stopping, no fixing.
Care
Unzip the cover, about ten seconds, and machine wash it cold. The core is spot-clean only. Nothing goes in the dryer.
How couples ACTUALLY use it.
The rest are in The Sunday Rule — 41 pages, free with every pillow.
of straight women usually
come during sex. straight men: 95%.
- 3 in 10 women said sex hurt last time
- 1 in 2 of them didn't tell him
Flat on the bed, he misses her G-spot and she's holding herself up the whole time.
This lifts her hips to 27°. He hits it every stroke. She lies back and comes.
*Straight adults. US national surveys: Frederick et al. 2018 (n=52,588) · Herbenick et al. 2015 · Carter et al. 2019.
What happens if you leave the angle alone.
We read 852 reviews and Reddit comments on wedge pillows. “Game changer” came up 12 times.
Some version of “wish we’d done this sooner” came up 40.
*Zero-Brace: she stops holding herself up. The foam does.
What couples wrote back.
Quality foam. I've bought enough bad foam to know.
Legs straight up, hips on the fat end, arms out because I have nothing to do with them. He is six two, I am five three, and for eight years someone was always cramping. Now I just lie there and let it happen. Loud, apparently. Thirty-three.
New mom, eighteen months out. This made getting back to it a lot gentler on me.
Sixteen years married and for the last few I was lying there thinking about it, if you know what I mean. Hips up on this and he hits the spot every time without either of us steering. Eleven times in six weeks, finished all eleven. Plain brown box. My neighbor thinks it is a back support.
Fifteen years married. This has done more for us in a month than the couples weekend did in a year. She is loud again, she gets there first now, and it cost less than the hotel. That is the whole report.
Best backrest in the house, and we have a lot of backrests. The other use is also good and I will leave it there because my daughter reads these. My wife made me write this review. She said the men never write the reviews. So here is one.
He read the guide before I got to it, which is not like him at all. Good sign.
My husband calls it the boulder. The boulder stays. Only wish is a second cover so one can be in the wash while the other is on, because the core is not something you want sitting bare on the bed. Otherwise no complaints from either of us, and he complains about everything.
Sixteen years married and still learning things. Good product, good guide.
That was the deciding factor. Nobody who walks past the bedroom door knows what it is, including our adult son who stayed over last month and said it was a nice cushion. It is a nice cushion. Grey. The one in the photo is what it looks like at eight in the morning, untouched, because I made the bed and left it.
I will be frank because nobody else is. Things were uncomfortable and so we stopped. This puts me at an angle where it is not uncomfortable, and that is the entire difference between stopping and not stopping. I wish I had found it five years ago.
For scale that is me holding it and I am five foot four. It is solid, not a cushion, and it took us a week to figure out where it lives when it is not in use. Four stars instead of five because the cover shed a bit of lint onto our dark sheets after the first wash. It stopped after that.
It props my back while I scroll in the evening and then it goes back upstairs at night. Two jobs, one object. My husband rolls his eyes about the scrolling part. He does not roll his eyes about the upstairs part.
I assumed the guide was a throw-in. It is not a throw-in. We read a bit of it on a Sunday, tried the one neither of us would have thought of, and then the pillow does the rest. Between the two of them we have gone from once a month, maybe, to most weeks. Forty-five, married eighteen years, two kids, so that is not nothing.
Then I thought, who exactly is going to judge me, and I could not think of anyone. It holds you at a height where your lower back is not doing the work, and I have a lower back that has been retired since 2019. My husband is 36 and his knees said thank you. We have laughed more in the bedroom in two months than in the two years before.
First week was awkward, second week it made sense. Give it a couple of weeks.
My wife's idea. She was right, as usual. Works well.
Well made, clean stitching, heavy base. Happy with it.
Nothing wrong with my back, we were just tired all the time. It helps with that.
Honestly bought it for my wife's back. It is my shoulders that thank her.
Lovely but big for our double bed. On a queen it'd be five.
Bought it on a whim one night. Turned out to be a good one.
Was unsure but bought it anyway. No regrets.
Heavy and firm, holds its shape. Exactly what I wanted.
We tried it for three weeks and it just was not our thing. Nothing wrong with it, it is well made, it simply did not suit how we are together. I wrote to them and they took it back without a fuss, which I appreciated. Two stars is for us, not for them.
Photo is me with my feet up after a day in the garden, which is what it does most afternoons. The obvious use is going fine too, thank you for asking. At 54 I did not expect to be writing this kind of review but here we are. It holds its shape, it does not smell of anything, and it looks like something you would buy on purpose.
Sturdy. Does what it says. My wife is pleased and so am I.
The little guide is nicer than I expected and the pillow itself is serious quality.
After a long dry spell this got us talking about it again. Helped a lot.
Grey one, goes with the linen. Took about a week before it stopped being the new thing and just became furniture. I lie against it to read, he pretends it is not there, and then later on he does not pretend. The cover has been through the wash twice and came out the same color, which I was nervous about.
the guide that comes with it is underrated. we use it more than i expected.
Replaced the pile of pillows we used to use. Much better.
We laughed a lot the first night. Second night we didn't. Both were good.
Got the grey one. Looks good on the bed and it works. Wife is happy too.
The grip on the bottom is real. We have silky sheets and it stayed put.
Figured I would end up returning it. Didn't. Still on the bed.
We have a standing appointment and it is this. Coffee, then this, and I come every Saturday now, which I could not say at thirty-five. Forty-five and honestly doing better than I ever did.
My hips needed some help and this does it. Don't be shy about ordering.
Second cover please. Everything else five stars.
Not our thing. Well made, just not for us at our stage. Sent it back, no problems with the return.
We laughed the first night trying to work it out. Now it's just part of things.
My wife sent me the link twice. I took the hint. Glad I did.
Looks like a normal cushion on the bed but it really does help. Happy with it.
Worth the money. Guide is funny, cover washes fine, pillow does the job.
Firm core, soft top, grippy bottom. Well thought out.
Looks like it belongs in a bedroom, not a clinic.
Expected it to be softer. Firm turned out to be right, but be warned. Four stars.
Thirty-four years married and this has been a nice change for us. Thank you.
Quality is there. Just big for our room. Measure first.
Shoulders, knees and back all feel better. Five stars.
Sixty percent TV pillow, forty percent what it is actually sold for. My husband would quote different percentages and he would be wrong. Either way it has earned its spot on the sectional and it has earned its spot on the bed, which is more than I can say for most things we have bought in the last year.
This is just where it lives. My wife said do not post the messy room, so here I am posting the messy room. The pillow is great. The pillow is the tidiest thing in there.
Good. Cover shed a little lint the first wash. Stopped after. Four stars.
Plain box, and the pillow itself looks normal. Nobody would know.
Fine, I will elaborate. Hips up, she is tighter at that angle and I am deeper. She finished twice the first night. That is the elaboration.
Took me a while to realize the small one on top is meant to be moved to wherever you need it. Once I got that it all made sense. Read the guide first.
Good. Heavy to move around. That's the only note.
Works well. Strap on the small pillow could be tighter.
Does what the website says it does. That's rare enough these days.
and laughed so hard the dog left the room. five stars for the laughing alone honestly. it also works exactly as intended which we confirmed once the dog was gone. my wife is the one in the photo and she approved it so don't @ me
Bought it, used it, we're keeping it.
Good. Needs a home when not in use. Plan for that.
sturdy, grippy, heavy in the right way
Good weight. Grips the sheet. Does the job.
Suits him more than me. Angle's not for every hip.
Wish there was a cream color. Grey is fine. Product is great.
Got the charcoal one. Looks like a cushion on the bed and nobody has asked about it.
It does not get hidden in the closet, which I think is the whole point. I used to put things away. This one stays on the bed and I have my coffee next to it and nobody feels weird. Grey one. Matches the slippers, which was not planned.
He was skeptical. He said we do not need a thing. He is no longer skeptical and he has stopped calling it a thing. Charcoal one. Heavier than I expected, in a good way, it does not slide around on our sheets at all.
Grey on white linen, you barely notice it. Exactly what I wanted.
The guide is underrated. Read it, then use the thing properly.
Which is not what we bought it for, but it is where it ended up. It is a very good thing to lean against with a blanket and a film. Four stars because it is a heavy object to carry up and down the stairs every time somebody decides it is needed elsewhere.
Husband was skeptical for a week. Now he's the one who gets it out.
Thirty-six. No back problems. Just like it. It makes the good positions easier and the easy positions better. You do not have to be injured to enjoy this.
Took this photo before. I am not posting the after. We made an actual evening of it, which at forty-nine with two teenagers in the house takes planning, and the planning is half of it honestly. If you are on the fence, the fence is the problem, not the pillow.
My knees and shoulders are much happier. Wish we'd bought it sooner.
At forty-three I did not expect to write this. Good product.
Did not tell anyone I bought it. Telling the internet now because it deserves the review.
Works. That's all I'm putting online.
We took the little booklet literally. Sunday, no phones, this on the bed. It sounded like a gimmick when I read it and it turned out to be the best rule we have followed in years. We are three Sundays in. I am not going to pretend every one was a movie, but all three happened, which is three more than the previous two months.
Press your hand into it and it takes a few seconds to come back. That is the entire reason a stack of regular pillows never worked for us, they either go flat or they push back at the wrong moment. I am an engineer and I notice these things, my wife says I notice them too much. Grey, if anyone is wondering, and it hides lint better than I expected.
Good product. No notes.
grey, pretty, works, nobody knows
Lives at the foot of the bed. Nobody minds.
Good product. Five stars from both of us.
No app, nothing to charge, just foam. Love that.
Night one was awkward and we got the giggles. Week two it had a spot. Now it is simply there, like the lamp. That is exactly what the website said would happen and I did not believe it, so I am telling you it happened.
Still going strong, and a bit more often thanks to this.
Things got harder after menopause. This makes the angle much kinder on me. Thank you.
young-ish couple, tired, this helps with tired
After a dry few years this got us talking again. Then more than talking.
The base really does grip. We have slippery sateen sheets and it stayed exactly where we put it. Surprised me.
Plain box saved me a conversation with the doorman.
Bought charcoal. Should have got grey for our sheets but it still looks good.
Saturday mornings are coffee and then this. It's our routine now.
I lie over it and he does my back and if nothing else happens that night, fine, I still got a back rub. Something else usually happens. But the back rub is guaranteed, which is more than I could say before.
Twenty-four years married and I learned something new about my wife. Good purchase.
Hip surgery two years ago. This made certain things possible again.
wife's happy, I'm happy, the dog is confused about what it is
Thirty-nine and forty-one. We bought it after a long talk about whether this part of our lives was finished. It is not finished. The pillow holds what our backs will not, and I do not mean that as a sad sentence. It is a practical one. Buy it, and read the guide. It is written for people like us.
I'm forty-six, my husband is fifty. We bought it, we use it, and that's all I'm saying. Five stars.
Fits on our queen without taking over. Looks like decor.
it just sits there and does its job. highest praise.
Two kids under five so we get about twenty minutes. This makes them count.
Kids moved out in June. This arrived in July. I will leave the rest to your imagination but the neighbors have not complained yet.
Forty-seven years old and I am writing a review for this. My wife is delighted. That should be enough.
The little pillow on top sits in a strap and it does stay, but it would be better if it clipped in place so it could not wander when things get going. Minor. Everything else is five stars, including the box it came in, which gave nothing away.
Two weeks of awkward before it clicked. Worth pushing through. Would have liked the guide to say that more clearly on page one.
Twelve years married and still learning. Good purchase.
Plain packaging and it doesn't look like anything on the bed. Works though.
He got to the guide before me and actually read it. That never happens.
Read reviews, bought it, reviews were honest.
Solid product. Took a couple of tries to find the right orientation for us. Guide helped.
Wife is happy with it. So am I.
He suggested it. He never suggests anything. Five stars for that alone.
Good product, the site was honest about it, plain box. Can't ask for more.
Plain packaging meant I didn't have to explain anything to the neighbors.
The ninety nights thing made me try. Still here at forty-four.
Not going to say much on here. Five stars, buy it.
Married twenty years and this taught us something. Five stars from both of us.
Forty-six and still at it. Five stars.
Works. Wife agrees. Five stars.
A lot. Then we figured it out. Now we do not laugh, we just use it, which is better, although the laughing was nice too.
Weighs more than you think. Good. It is not going anywhere once it is down.
My daughter will never read this. Five stars.
At my age this is a kindness. Thank you.
Good for him, less so for me. Angle suits one of us better.
I was nervous about what the box would look like. It is a plain brown box. Nobody in my house knew what it was until I decided they should.
Good weight, doesn't slide, wife approves.
Which was a conversation in itself. She was right. I am not going to tell her she was right but she was right.
It does hold the angle and it does stay put. I suppose I expected it to fix more than the angle, which is my fault, not the pillow's. We use it. We like it. It did not change our lives, it changed our Tuesday nights, which I realize is what it said it would do.
Quality is there. We are just not pillow people I think. Kept it because returning felt like effort, and we do use it occasionally.
We put the phones in the drawer on Sundays now. The rule works.
It is meant to be firm, I understand that now, but the first time I leaned on it I thought it was a mistake. It is not a mistake. It is the reason it works. Still, manage your expectations, this is not a soft pillow, it is closer to a well upholstered footstool.
Fifty-three and my husband is fifty-three. We use it. There.
The small pillow under the hips is the whole trick.
After my hip op this is the only way certain things work. Grateful.
Washed the cover and it came out great. Was worried about the foam but it's fine.
I left it on the bed as a hint. He got the hint.
Works for the knees. I have bad knees and this takes the pressure off completely. Should have bought it years ago.
Not for us. Well made. Return was simple. No hard feelings.
No more holding myself up the whole time. Thank god.
Two toddlers, so we get maybe twenty minutes a week. This makes them count.
Charcoal looks sharp on white sheets. Didn't expect that.
Grips the sheet really well. Clever base.
Four stars. Would be five with a handle. Heavy object.
Holds its shape, stays put, washable cover, looks normal. I had all the doubts and none of them held up. My wife said I should mention that it is not small. It is not small. You will know where it is.
I'm forty-three, wife is forty-one. We like it. Five stars.
Had a wedge before from a medical supplier. This is that, but designed by someone who has been in a bedroom.
I had my hip done two years ago and certain things simply stopped. This holds me at an angle where the hip is not complaining. I did not think that was possible any more.
Twelve years. We do not usually hug afterward, we usually roll over and find our phones. Something about the angle makes the whole thing less of an effort and when it is less of an effort you do not want to roll over yet. That is the honest review.
Sturdy. Heavy. Does not slide. Exactly the three things I wanted and could not find anywhere else.
Better than expected, and I expected a lot after the reviews.
Big for our double. Queen owners, you're fine.
First week was awkward. Second week something clicked. Now it is just part of how we are. Give it the two weeks.
I expected a diagram sheet. It is a proper little book and it made both of us laugh out loud, which is not a sentence I expected to write about a pillow.
Firmer than expected. Right, but a surprise.
Firm, holds its shape. Good.
Sinks slowly, stops, holds. I have bought a lot of foam things and most of them are either rock hard or pancake in a month. This is neither so far, three months in.
Guide is funny. Husband read it twice.
Which never happens. He read the guide twice. I am not complaining.
does what it says, no drama, good foam
We argued about the orientation for two minutes then it was obvious.
solid, no smell, no slide, would buy again
Stays put and holds the angle. That's what I needed.
Easier on my knees and shoulders.
Grey, sturdy, discreet, works. Would buy again. Will not need to for a while.
We are both in our forties and came into this with bodies that have opinions. His back, my knee. This puts the angle somewhere neither of us has to fight for, and once you are not fighting for the angle you notice the other person again. Sounds dramatic. It is not dramatic, it is just comfortable.
The small pillow strap could be tighter. It holds, but it can shift if things get enthusiastic. Minor. Everything else is great.
Washed twice, zero change in color or feel.
Good foam, good cover. Happy.
Works. Wife agrees.
We have a nosy building. It came in a brown box with no pictures and no name on it, and the delivery guy thought it was a footstool. Inside it is exactly what the website shows. Charcoal. Good weight to it. My wife has been smiling at me in a way I have not seen for a while.
Love it. A bit of lint first wash. Stopped after.
That is what my husband calls it. Forty-six years old, twenty-four married, first tune up in a while. Running smoothly now.
Good and firm, does the job. Wife is pleased.
She ordered it. I made a face. I have been making the face for fifteen years. The face is gone. I am not going to explain why in a product review, but if you are a husband reading this because your wife sent you the link, stop making the face.
I am forty-four and I have opinions about foam. This is good foam.
Great. Wish it had a carry handle. It's heavy.
Not the interest. The hip. Every position involved one of us holding something up, and the something was usually me. This takes that job away. I am not going to write the details, but I will say that my wife got to stop asking if I was alright every two minutes, and that alone was worth the money.
Works for us. That's the whole review, thank you.
Expected softer. It's firm. Firm is correct. Four for the surprise.
Heavy. Use it sometimes. Not weekly like I planned.
Your back just needs a little help. This is the help.
It's a Saturday routine now. Coffee, then this.
Plain box, no branding on the outside, looks like a cushion once it is in the room. I have a teenager. Nobody has asked a single question.
I have looked at wedges before and they all look like they came from a hospital supply shop. This looks like a cushion from a nice furniture store. That mattered to me more than I expected.
Got the grey because our bedroom is all light neutrals and it disappears into the bed. Nobody would guess. It has been through two washes with zero fading.
Got it in grey. The guide is short but it is the thing we went back to first. Pillow is the main event though.
Thirty-seven. Bad knees, bad back, good marriage. This helps with the first two.
Great. A handle would make it perfect.
Does not flatten. Three months in. Still firm.
Firm in the right way. Slow give. Holds.
Both colors are cool-toned. Our bedroom is very light and warm and I would have liked an oatmeal or a cream. Product itself is excellent.
We are forty-five and forty-seven and it took us a few goes. Now it is easy. Four stars because the learning curve is real at our age.
Lint first wash. Stopped after. Four stars.
Stays on the sheet. That was the dealbreaker and it passed.
Replaced our old wedge, which was ugly. This one looks fine on the bed.
The little pillow moves. Once you know, it clicks.
Good weight, good grip, good cover. Happy with it.
Grey goes with our bedding and you don't notice it. Good choice.
My wife cannot lift it easily because of her shoulder, so moving it on and off the bed is my job. It is firm foam and that comes with weight. Worth knowing if one of you has a bad shoulder. Otherwise this is a good, honest product that does what it claims.
Helps my wife's back and my knees. One pillow for both of us.
Plain box, no fuss, and it works.
Firmer than I expected. Right, as it turns out. But know that.
No injuries here, just better geometry.
Good buy. Thank you.
Before the drifting apart, not after. But after works too, apparently. We are doing fine now.
Forty-three, two kids, church on Sundays. It is for people like me. It is for anyone who is tired of holding themselves up.
My husband's knees are a lot happier. Five stars from him.
No regrets. Quite the opposite.
Nothing injured, we were just tired. It helps with that.
Thirty-fifth. He opened the box and looked at me. Then he looked at the guide. Then he looked at me again. Best anniversary in years.
It's a pillow. A good one. Expected magic. My fault.
Bought it together, reviewing it together. She approves.
Bad back, new pillow. Things are better now.
The little top pillow moves. Once you know that it all clicks.
We had quietly given up and neither of us said so. This was my way of saying so without saying so. He got the message. Happy fifty-one-year-old here.
Foam smell for two days. Gone after. Otherwise perfect.
Woke up and saw the confirmation email and thought, well, that is a conversation. It was a good conversation. It has been a good two months. It is a well made object, the stitching is clean, the cover is soft, and the thing does not move once it is down.
No charger, no app, no noise. Just works.
She bought it for her back. I am the one who uses it for mine. Shoulders mostly. We do not hold anybody up anymore, we just get on with it, and getting on with it is the whole game at forty-three.
No back issues. Just better angles. Recommend.
No injuries, just no energy. This makes the little time we have easier. You do not need a bad back to need one of these.
My knees are grateful, my wife is grateful, so am I.
Strap on the top pillow could be tighter. Minor.
I didn't want this. My wife was right. That's all.
It does what it says. I suppose I hoped for more of a transformation. It is a pillow. A good one. Manage expectations.
Good product. Zero notes.
My husband said thank you twice in one week. That never happens.
Base grips the sheet, top is soft, middle holds. Well made.
It replaced an argument we used to have about pillows. The argument is gone.
He stopped rolling his eyes about it after the first week.
Good firm support. Soft top layer. Someone thought about it.
My husband was skeptical. He is not skeptical anymore.
Looks like it belongs in a bedroom, not a hospital. That mattered.
That is how I knew. Fifty-five, twenty-seven years married, he rolls his eyes at everything. He did not roll his eyes at this.
42 here. Didn't think we needed it. We did.
Needs a home when not in use. Plan for that. Otherwise great.
The cover is a heathered knit sort of thing and it is genuinely soft. I expected something scratchy. Nothing scratchy about it.
My wife reads against it. I watch the game against it. Then later it does the other thing. It earns its keep in this house.
Saturday mornings have a new routine. Coffee, then this.
Does what it's meant to. Five stars.
It's a pillow. A good one. I expected magic. Manage expectations.
Too firm for my wife. Sent it back. Easy return though.
The hardest part was not the pillow. The hardest part was saying out loud that we had drifted. Buying this was a way of saying it without saying it. He understood. We are okay now. I know this is a product review but that is what the product did.
Great once learned. First week is a learning curve.
And the last thing was a wedge from a medical catalogue that looked like it belonged in a hospital. This one looks like it belongs in a bedroom. The grip on the bottom is not a gimmick, it stayed put on a fitted sheet for an hour, which the wedge never managed for five minutes.
Good, heavy, grippy. Wish it was a touch narrower for our full bed. On a queen it would be five.
Holds the angle. That is it. It does not vibrate, it does not need charging, it does not come with an app. It sits there and does its job and you forget about it, which is the highest compliment I can pay a thing in the bedroom.
His knees love it. My hip does not love the angle as much. We still use it, but it suits one of us more than the other.
Big and heavy, stays where you put it. Good.
The angle thing they describe is true. You stop holding yourself up.
Fine. Works. We don't use it as much as I thought.
Ordered it without telling anyone. Very glad I did. Five stars.
Bought it, tried it, wife's happy. Easy five stars.
Solid build. The stitching is clean, the cover is thick, the base grips. Not cheap but not cheaply made either.
Let us just say it needed washing after the second week and the cover came off, went in cold, came out perfect. The core was untouched. That was the thing I was most worried about and it was fine.
Took a couple of tries to orient. Guide helped. Four.
The pile is gone. The back of the closet is relieved. This does in one piece what five pillows did badly.
Looks like a normal cushion. Nobody knows what it is.
Cover washed fine. Cold, gentle, came out the same.
Doesn't smell, doesn't flatten, doesn't slide. Recommend.
Pick a night, keep it, no phones. We have kept five out of six Sundays. The pillow is the excuse to keep the rule, and the rule is the thing that changed.
It just gives you a better angle. That turned out to be enough.
Heavy in the good way. Doesn't budge.
Good size. Fits on a queen without taking over. Lives at the foot of the bed most days.
The conversation was the hard part. The pillow was easy.
I figured if it was no good I would send it back. It is still here at night sixty. That should tell you what you need to know.
Was sceptical. Took about two weeks to come round. Convert now.
Firm. Firmer than I thought. Correct, as it turns out, but manage your expectations.
Surprise gift. Bad idea. Talk first. Returned.
He opened the box and went quiet. Good quiet.
Not instead of. As well as. But this did the practical part that counselling could not. Forty-two, and optimistic again.
My wife told me to leave a review so here it is. We both say thanks.
Fine. Good quality. We don't reach for it as often as hoped.
Two kids, one evening a week, this makes it count.
Fourteen years married. Nice change for us. Thanks.
I cannot move it on my own because of my shoulder so my husband does the lifting. Works wonderfully once it is in place. Just know it is a solid object.
Took a week to understand. Then it was obvious. Four for the week.
Got the charcoal one. The guide is better than I expected for something free. Pillow is the main event.
The zip goes all the way round so the cover comes off in about ten seconds like they say. I was expecting to wrestle with it. No wrestling.
I'm thirty-four, he's thirty-six. We use it. Not saying more.
Firm inside, soft top, grippy bottom. Good design.
Eighteen months since the baby and it had been about that long. This made the first time back easier on a body that has been through a lot. Thank you for making it.
Fifteen years married. Feels like early days again.
Replaced the three pillows we used to fight over.
Best thing we've bought for the house in a while. Don't overthink it.
We read The Sunday Rule out loud in bed like idiots and then actually did what it said. Pick a night, keep it, no phones. The pillow helps but honestly the rule did more. Give the rule a try even if you are undecided on the pillow. Then buy the pillow.
That part is not in the guide. That part we invented. I lie over it, he works on the spot that has been bothering me since the kids, and by the time he is done we are already halfway to where we were going anyway.
Got the charcoal. Thought it would look like a rock on the bed. It looks like a piece of furniture. Very pleased.
Cover came off in ten seconds like the website said. Went in the wash. Fine.
We keep the Sunday thing from the guide now. It works, and the pillow helps.
Works. Heavy. Use it sometimes. Not every week like I hoped.
Bought the pillow. Nearly did not, because I thought it was a gimmick. The guide alone is worth it apparently, according to my wife who read it before I did.
Solid, grippy, heavy. Exactly what the site says.
Stays put on sateen. Nothing else ever did.
Cover comes off with a long zip, goes in cold, comes out fine. I have washed it three times. The core itself you spot clean, which has not come up. That is the review I wanted to read before buying and could not find, so here it is.
My wife found this and I said alright, for her sake. It was not for her sake. My back stopped being the excuse and it turns out the excuse was most of the problem. Thirty-eight, for the record. Do not let anyone tell you it is over.
Two kids under six. We are not broken, we are exhausted. This makes the twenty minutes we get count. Five stars for the twenty minutes.
Bought it as a couple. Used it as a couple. Recommending it as a couple. She is reading over my shoulder.
Firm in the right way. Soft on top. Holds. What else do you want from it.
No back problems. Still worth it. Angles are everything.
Arrived in a plain box. My wife opened it and smiled. Still smiling.
Big for our room. Works. Measure first.
Looks like a cushion the rest of the time. Perfect.
I bought this as a surprise. Do not buy this as a surprise. Have the conversation first. The pillow is fine, my planning was not. It is going back.
Good foam, sinks slowly and holds. Simple.
Bought it for her back. Turns out it was for my knees too.
Took him about a week. Men are funny about these things. Now he is the one who suggests it. Twelve years and I have new information about my husband.
We have a full size bed and this is a big object. It works beautifully but it needs a home when not in use. Four stars for the bed size issue only.
I did not understand what they meant about holding the angle until we used it. Your body stops doing the job and you stop thinking about your body. That is the entire trick.
We're young and have no back issues. Still worth it. Angles matter.
Got the grey. Looks nice, does the job, nobody who visits has a clue.
Works. Big. Heavy. We use it sometimes. Not as often as I thought we would.
no smell, no slide, no regrets
Wife is happy. That's my review.
Hip has been a problem. This holds what the hip can't.
Thirty-eight and thirty-nine, no back problems, just a baby that sleeps like a fire alarm. We needed something that made the little time we have count, and this does that. You do not need to be injured to need this. You need to be tired, and everyone is tired.
My wife's idea. She was right.
My husband carries it up the stairs like a trophy.
Stays where you put it. That is ninety percent of what you need from it. The other ten percent is also good.
Read the whole guide in one sitting. Tried about half of it so far. Reporting back in a month.
He suggested it on a Tuesday. Tuesdays are now a thing.
Charcoal on white sheets looks sharp. Unexpected.
The first few nights were awkward and we nearly gave up. Glad we did not. By the second week it made sense. Four stars because it would be helpful if the guide said up front that the first week is a learning curve. It sort of says it, but not loudly enough for people like us who give up easily.
Don't overthink it. Buy it.
Small pillow stays where you put it. Took me a minute to work out why that matters.
Looks expensive. Feels expensive. Was worth it.
Back stopped being the excuse. Turns out it was mostly the excuse.
The guide made us laugh. The pillow is the serious part. Both good.
Second cover would be nice. Otherwise no complaints from either of us.
Didn't need it for injury. Needed it for energy. Works for that too.
The conversation was harder than the purchase. Both went fine.
Our old solution slid off the bed every single time. This one has a grippy bottom and it genuinely does not move. That is the whole review. It does not move.
It arrived in a plain box and I put it on the bed and said nothing. He asked what it was. I said it was a pillow. He said it did not look like a pillow. That was a Tuesday. By the weekend he was the one suggesting it. Eighteen years and I have never seen him suggest anything.
It moves to wherever you need it and the strap keeps it there. Took me a while to understand that it is not decorative. It is the part that makes the angle comfortable.
Not telling my daughter I bought this. Five stars.
Good grip on the base. Doesn't budge.
Washed the cover twice. Still the same grey. Good.
Nineteen years married. Nice to be noticed again. Five stars.
Nothing to charge, no app. Just foam that works.
Cover off in seconds. Wash. Back on. Easy.
It is not something you tuck away. We put it at the foot of the bed and it looks fine there, but think about where it will live before you order.
Too firm for us. Well made. Return was easy and polite.
The reviews were right. Glad I read them first.
Very good. Wish the guide said the first week is awkward. It is.
Does not look like a sex thing. Looks like a cushion. My mother-in-law sat on it. Nobody said anything.
good weight, good cover, good grip, good night
Bought it, we use it. No further comment.
My wife laughed when she saw the box. She isn't laughing now. Good purchase.
Plain box. Good weight. Works as advertised.
We kept four Sundays in a row. Longest streak in a decade.
My wife ordered it and I pulled a face. Not pulling it anymore.
Heavier than I expected. Solid though. Happy with it.
Wonderful, but heavy for me to move alone.
Grey, soft cover, firm inside. Right combination.
Wedge from the medical place is in the garage now. This replaced it.
Bought it for his back. He bought me flowers. Fair trade.
I'm forty-four, he's forty-eight. Works for us. Five stars.
My hip is happier and so is my wife. Thank you.
Lower back, fifty-seven years old, and this is the first time in a decade I have not been the one apologising afterwards. Very grateful.
Good. Heavy, but it stays put.
Holds the angle. Back does nothing. Exactly the point.
Stays put on a fitted sheet. Everything else I tried slid.
Forty-three and this helps. Good buy.
Good. Expected softer, it is firm. Firm is right, I now understand. Still, know that going in.
Wedge is in the garage. This is on the bed.
Everyone asking about color. I got the grey because our sheets are white and I did not want a dark rock in the middle of them. It hides lint, it hides hair, it does not show marks. Charcoal is probably fine too but grey was right for us.
My husband carries it upstairs every night. He's proud of it.
We each have something. This takes the strain off both at once, which I did not think a single object could do. It can.
Grey matched our room. Nobody's asked. Nobody will.
Got the charcoal. Looks sharp and stays put.
Wife ordered it. I pretended not to care. I care. Good product, good weight, the cover feels expensive.
I have a disc thing. Certain positions were off the menu for years. With this holding me, one of them is back on the menu. I cried a little, honestly.
We have a full size bed and this takes up a lot of it. On a queen it would be fine. It works as described and the quality is there, we just have to plan around it more than I would like. If you have a small bed, measure first.
Wife's happy, I'm happy.
Exactly as described. Firm, stays put, looks normal.
Works great. Slight foam smell first two days, gone by day three. Mention it so nobody panics.
Forty-eight. Still at it. This helps.
Bought it as a surprise. Don't. Talk first. Going back.
Worth it for the pillow alone. The guide is a bonus. A big bonus.
Foam smell two days. Gone after. Otherwise excellent.
Took a photo for the review and then deleted it. Not that kind of photo. It is just a good pillow and it works.
Solid. Doesn't move, doesn't flatten, no smell.
Great pillow. Wish it came with a second cover. Otherwise perfect.
Does what it says. No complaints.
Would love a cream option. Product itself is superb.
Fifteen years married. We're back on schedule.
We wanted something softer. This is a firm support, which is what it says, I just did not read carefully enough. Return was painless and polite.
My shoulders are a lot happier. Should have got this years ago.
I ordered this thinking it was for my wife. Turns out I was the one holding a plank for ten minutes and calling it romance. Whole different night when you are not doing that.
Zip goes all the way round. Cover off in seconds. Good design.
Bad back, right pillow. Sorted.
This was the reason. It sat on the bed and it was an invitation without anyone having to say anything. That is worth more than the price.
Better than the pile of pillows, by a mile.
Mother of four. Bought it anyway. Glad I did.
Heavy for my shoulder. Husband lifts it. Works beautifully in place.
Firm, keeps its shape three months in. Good buy.
Easier on my knees, back and shoulders.
Just a cushion on the bed most of the time. Clever.
For the record she was right. It took two tries to work out the orientation for what we wanted and after that it was obvious. The little pillow on top is the part you want for your head or your hips depending, and it moves. Forty-nine and fifty-one and feeling about thirty-nine.
Left it on the bed as a hint. He took it.
It's been there every night for two months. It's just part of the bed now.
My partner ordered it. I grumbled. I was wrong.
The top pillow under the hips is the trick. Read the guide.
Soft, thick. Zip is sturdy. Good stitching.
We used to build a whole architecture of regular pillows and it collapsed every time. This replaces the whole pile with one thing that holds. Charcoal, and it looks sharp.
Firm like it says. That firmness is the whole point.
I use it to read. He uses it for his back after work. Then at the weekend it does what it was designed for. Three uses, one object, earns its space.
Good honest product. Plain box. Works.
The four facts people ask about.
This is a comfort and positioning product. It is not a medical device and we do not claim it treats any condition.
Questions we get by email.
Which lift should I pick?
Deep Lift Pro. It sits taller, supports 265+ lbs, and gives the deeper angle most couples buy this for. Gentle Lift is the lower, softer version — for her under 125 lbs, or a first wedge.
It has been a long time for us. Is this going to make things awkward?
Probably for about five minutes, yes. Most couples who write to us say the first night involved some laughing and a fair amount of adjusting.
What they also say is that the laughing helped. A new object in the bed gives you something to talk about that is not the thing you have been avoiding talking about. It moves the conversation from “what happened to us” to “wait, turn it the other way.”
My husband does not think anything is wrong. How do I even bring this up?
Several women have told us they skipped the conversation entirely and let the box do the talking. It arrives, it goes on the bed, and the question becomes “what is this” instead of “we need to talk.”
If you would rather say something first, the version that seems to land is the physical one. My back hurts and I want to try something. That is true, it is not an accusation, and it is very hard to argue with.
What if we try it twice and go straight back to how things were?
Then you send it back and you are out nothing. That is what the 90 nights are for, and we mean used, washed, and slept on.
We would rather you find out in your own bed than talk yourself into it or out of it from a product page.
How firm is it, and will it flatten out in six months?
Firm enough that it does not fold under two adults, soft enough that it does not feel like a wedge of plywood under a sheet. The core is high-density foam rather than the shredded fill you find in cheap positioning pillows, which is the part that collapses.
If it loses its shape inside a year, write to us and we will replace it.
How does it arrive, and where do we keep it?
Vacuum-compressed in a plain brown box with a shipping label and nothing else. No brand name, no product name, no window. It expands to full size in a few hours out of the bag. It ships within 2 business days and usually arrives in 7-12 business days, tracked, at no charge.
After that, it lives on the bed. It looks like a reading wedge, and that is what you call it when someone asks.
Ninety nights is a long time.
Put it on the bed. Use it, wash it, argue about which way it goes. That's twelve Sundays, at least. If she hasn't started it once, send it back. Cover dirty is fine.